In a really complete moment, Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck finally got married in Las Vegas on July 16. It’s been a low-key affair, but there’s a second, bigger wedding on the horizon, too. Everyone from JLo’s first ex-husband to his contemporaries have thoughts about weddings, that is, how long or not they will last. and now, Real Housewives of New York Alum Bethenny Frankel has shared her own year about the challenges the couple are likely to face in Hollywood now that they’re married.
Benefit from her own experiences Just B with Bethenny Frankel On the podcast, the infamous TV personality talked about how a relationship in the public eye can be “exciting” at first. But she added that her attempt to match external perception versus actual reality led to a number for her, which she claims could become the case for Bennifer 2.0: Married Edition. The 51-year-old said,
It affects you not only does it affect you, but it kind of believes in the excitement of being real and being a part of the relationship. So you’re in a relationship and everyone thinks it’s pretty cool and you’re in a fairy tale and you believe what other people think and you’re all in this together. This is a dangerous dynamic because it is not real.
Bethenny Frankel mainly refers to the . file jigli A co-stars relationship can often live on hype and nostalgia, which isn’t good for longevity. What’s more, the former reality star thinks the two aren’t doing much to avoid the aforementioned hype pitfalls, like at the height of their first date in their early streaks. She noted that the paparazzi’s honeymoon trip to Paris – also known as one of the world’s busiest cities – was largely evidence that they weren’t as concerned with privacy as they should be.
The CEO of SkinnyGirl added that the Batman actor’s well-documented history with alcoholism presents another major challenge to his relationship. Ben Affleck has spoken at length about his drug use and the ways it affected his first marriage to Jennifer Garner. But Bethenny Frankel seems to think the intense scrutiny surrounding Affleck, J. Law, and their second chance at the fairy tale would be more interesting to his struggles with alcohol, saying,
complex [the scrutiny] Being addicted in a relationship, and being addicted has its challenges for the person and for the person in a relationship with the addict. I call it activation. I’ve been surrounded by addicts for most of my life, from everything to eating disorders and cigarettes to alcohol and birth control pills to drug addiction. I have seen a lot. I grew up too fast, too small, and so I really understand this, people have triggers. Addicts are not supposed to be treated as if they were made of glass, but stress is not good for an addict.
Interestingly, she went on to say that JLo is more famous than Ben Affleck at this time (which is arguable) and that the latter would have “a lot of revitalization” due to her notoriety. In particular, Bethenny Frankel had some trouble with Lopez appearing to ramp up their marriage publicity by “pretending to be naked” when she launched her new body care line on her 53rd birthday/honeymoon recently. In short, Frankel quipped that they “make Meghan and Harry look special”.
Now, Bravo fans know well from watching Bethenny Frankel for eight seasons rune (Available to stream via Peacock Premium) and her other shows as Not Who Speaks The Words – Even About Those Ways To Get Out Of Her Paychecks As Now Mr. and Mrs. Ben and Jane Affleck. However, someone might want to tell her that Bennifer is not new to this.
This is their second time at this rodeo, and they may have a better chance than you think. After getting back together last year, in fact, Ben Affleck shared that at this point in his life, he’s learned to keep the relationship private — only sharing details they feel good about. JLo has endorsed these ideas herself, saying that she now knows “what’s real, what isn’t real.”
Of course, all marriages have challenges, and Ben and Jane’s marriage doesn’t have to be any different. At least, though, their children from previous relationships are said to blend well together and the newlyweds are on the same page as to where they live. Therefore, Bettini Frankel may end up as one of the naysayers in the entourage of their famous love story. Time will tell.
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